HowDoYouDecide

When I was younger, I used to use my heart a lot to make choices. However, as I got older, using my heart made it difficult to keep friends because I was always "really nice" and stopped being rational about the types of friend I should have. I have always been the "nice type"but sometimes being too nice all the time does not get us very far, only hurt. So when I left high school I decided to use my head instead of my heart. I can only put my heart through so much...Not to be all sad and sappy, but its true, why put our hearts through so much if we know that they can really only handle so much? Now, I am realizing that using both your head and your heart is important because you need to ensure that whom you are friends with will both benefit and encourage and educate you, while using your head reminds you to be practical and honest to make sure the friendship stays what it should be. Right, strong, and faith based. If you pick a friend who will steer you the wrong way, enjoy getting back on track, it is not easy, but it is possible, but be prepared for some tears.

How do you decide who to be friends with? Do you use your heart, your head, or both?
What has worked better for you?

Signed:
GyftedArtyst

Evolutionary Pschology

I am taking two classes at Saint Mary's University, one class is Religious Studies, the other one is Evolutionary Psychology.
It's funny how what we learn in life is later questioned and as we get older, we must learn to trust those closer to us to ensure that we stay on track.
Learning is important, but make sure to learn what you know you need to learn not just knowing it for the sake of it! There is a big difference. I am enjoying a lot right now but sometimes I wish I had kept reading. You learn so much from the different books you pick up, and I stress how important it is to educate yourself whether in a classroom or not. Just know your stuff and never be afraid to succeed!

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GyftedArtyst

Hyporcite

Sometimes we let wrong in our life too many times, and often wrong leads us astray. I blogged earlier about choices and regret, and am slowly learning that not everything you encounter is good for you, and as Christian, things are harder because they look more appealing and attractive. You end up wanting more, when you deserve more but are getting less. I wont make this long, but I just want to point out that temptation is all around us, but what we must do is decide if it is worth it now, and after, because the one thing we need to remember, is that what may be good now, can cost us later, and if we have more to lose, is it worth it?

Think about it!!!!

Signed:
GyftedArtyst