Some days I am happy, some days I am sad, some days I question where I am going, and other days the lighbulb goes on and I hae figured out my next step! God works in mysterious ways but he never let's me down! I'm going to get personal...this won't be the first and only blog though there will be more!
So I have never been in a relationship. Those that know me, and I mean like really know me know I don't date just anyone. I have very little experience in that section. I was born in Zambia, raised in Canada, so my ways of things are different. I date for marriage. However, times have changed. I went from wanting to date when I was younger (JR & HS), like all my other friends, to having no problem with waiting(till you grow up a bit more), to thinking after some university experience "What is wrong with me?" (Why can't I find a man) But than I learned that having standards when it comes to relationships is a good thing. Respect is the one thing guy's want, and if you don't have for yourself, yeah, good luck! If there is one thing I have learned about guys it's from my sisters. Very valuable advice, the question is do I have the confidence and patience to make the advice work? I do because of God!
I am not the type of girl that chases guys, guys are supposed to come to my door, but often times the door, ahem, my door is not always open which prevents the opportunity. I believe that knowledge is power and that woman have a lot of power. Which means if there is something that I want, I just need to put a "lil umph in it". And it's true. But, it does not always work in my favor, which makes it often hard to "get the guy". I am a shy person but with the right person, right place, right timing, etc, I come out of my shell. But as usual there are some things about me that would cause a guy to question things and I just want to say that I am different than most girls, but I am also one of a kind. I am the type of girl you take home to your parents, yes I am, and I am proud my parents brought me up like that.
A while ago my older sister put together a surprise party for her husband, and it went great. Afterwards a friend drove us home and I made a reflection about how I would defend anyone but when it comes to me, I feel like I have too much to prove. I know it's not the most positive thing to put on a blog but it shows we all have our flaws and stuff to work on, don't hold it against me for being real and raw with ya'll. Thats how I do it!
This is me saying, you have a chance to get to know me. So please don't be shy
(Please let me know if this made sense because I do proofread my work) :)
Signed:
GyftedArtyst
