We like good memories, the kind that will make us laugh, smile, and wish for more good memories. But we know, in life, there will be good memories, and not so good memories. So how do we deal with it? I pray, write, and share how I feel with people because that is what gets me through the times I need a crutch, and the times I thank God for an awesome day. And also because it is not good to keep anything all tucked away inside of you. Trust me, I have been doing that for years and it messed up the flow of things.
The past year has been filled with some really amazing memories. And memories that I wish in ome way, had gone differently.
I lost my job in Feb of this past year, so I have been jobless, and I have been job hunting since than. It is not very fun to hear back, "we have decided to go with another applicant." It hurts to read the email, and it hurts more when you just do not hear anything back. But what hurts more is when you know you are qualified for the job, but its like they are screaming at you 'why bother applying you know you can't do it anyway" But see, we have two voices in our heads, a good one and a bad one, lately I have had both telling me stuff at the same time, and I am forgetting that the good memories are the ones you want. Dwelling on the negative only makes it tough to move on because you are in a rut and can only see the bad, not the good.
So I urge those of you that have memories, to treasure the good, and forgive the bad. Do not let it the bad hit you worse than it should. As my day says, deal with it, but move on and keep smiling.
Signed:
GyftedArtyst
