Thursday, September 29, 2011

Women & Men: Vague I know!

Women and men both make a lot of mistakes, however, we do not always see them as mistakes, but more so choices made to determine the best solution of a problem. We only want what is best, yet the world seems to decide otherwise. Will society ever just let us be? Not really, but we will continue to prove to the world that we marry for both love and money, why can't we have both? Some marry for one, some marry for none, they marry someone because they know that this person can help them survive. After all, this world is survival of the fittest, and sadly, we know that our third world countries are not doing so great, but that is because of the bad leadership, and greed.
If men understood how a woman thought, would they cheat? Would he let his eyes wonder? If a woman knew her man would she even bother being with him? Why doesn't she just let him go?
I just find it funny and odd how men and women operate. We upset each other all the time, and still yet, we cannot make it without one another. Literally, even if two women fell in love, they still need a man to get em pregnant. Can't escape that one, and the same goes for men...Anyway, off topic...
I really think and believe that if we took the time to understand each other, than we would want to hurt each other less. Instead of cheating, be honest and tell the girl you have a woman. Just because you are not seen together does not mean you take advantage. Ladies, check in with your man, let him know what's up. I watched The Game, and even though Melanie and Derwin had some major issues between them, they remained honest even though it could have broken them. They have overcome many trials, infidelity, a child from two unwed parents, we have witnessed them get through, and still yet, they love each other. She knew what she was doing, they watched each other fail, but they also pushed each other to succeed because that is what's important. Why watch your lover fail if you know you can help them? Don't do them wrong just because the opportunity is there. I do not care if it is a man or a woman, neither should act like idiots. If you got something good, you better work hard to make it stick other wise you can kiss what is called love goodbye. It can only happen so many times.

Signed:
GyftedArtyst

Procrastinator

Yup, I procrastinate!!!!!


I have spent the past week talking about how I would read, yet for most of the days, I either spend them at the mall, by accident, or hanging with friends so I never really hit the study area. This does not make me lazy, I just have to get used to being in school. And I am not yet.

So anyway, I started a new blog, not sure I mentioned it but I will be poetry blogging about everything and anything no matter what the topic, so feel free to check it out!!

Signed:
GyftedArtyst