So last yesterday I came across a few discoveries, most happened during church and after church. There was no sermon because of how long church went, and the pastor was kind enough to let us out early, but she left us with some words saying, are we for God, or are we against God? And she explained that if we are against God it means we are doing things our own way, instead of letting God help us. I have been trying to do things my own way for years, while still hanging on to God asking for help, but not fully letting go and saying to him, "Take the wheel" Reason I say this is because it is true. We cannot do anything on our own. Hard work takes the help of many, family, friends, community, professors etc. I know people who do not like being told how to breathe, speak to God, how to love, because they had their parents to do that for them. Nobody likes to be told what to do, but in life we have to learn to ask for help so we can be successful.
Just before I wrote this blog, My dashboard shows I am ten posts away from being at 100 posts. That is pretty awesome, and it shows how far I have come.
I have made other discoveries last night as well which might help you, and it might now, it's all how you see things in life. This is how I see things right now.
You want to have fun, but you know you have to represent wherever you go. You are a child of God, so you must act like a child of God. If you want to have fun, it means you have to think about who you hang with, where you go, and what you say to people. Having fun comes with limits and boundaries despite what the other person might say. Temptation is real, and it feels good at the time, but it will cost you in the future.
If you are not ready to settle down, than do not settle down, but do not mess around either. Be honest and true to who you are and let the people in your life know and understand where you come from.
Denial is not good, and it does not help you move forward it only holds you back.
So do you know where you come from? who you are?
Do you know your boundaries? Do you friends respect your limits?
If they don't, it means they do not care about you at all.
Be careful who you let in your life, they can either hurt you, or make it better
Signed:
GyftedArtyst
